Self-Expansion Quiz for Love

Dr. Gary Lewandowski developed this quiz because he found that an important part of love is a feeling of self-expansion.  What is that?

He thinks that when we fall in love it feels so good because it is a very rapid expansion of the self—we feel like a new person.  We can do anything!  The world is a beautiful place.

This quiz isn’t just about how MUCH in love you are, but how good the relationship is—is this a healthy love/romance?  Some people use it to explore their marriage relationship.

Dr. Lewandowski has done a lot of other research that is interesting.

The quiz appeared previously here.


Instructions: Answer each question according to the way you feel. Give each statement a “score”. 1=“Not Very Much,” 7=“Very Much.”

It’s just 10 questions. Let’s get started!

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